Never let anyones judgments affect who you are. Never let anyone change who you are. Each one of us is a magnificent creature who is individual and beautiful, and a stunning flower of the world. There is no one just like you, You are a rare breed. In actual fact you are the rarest species known to this universe. After you there will be no one the same. Everyone of you is perfect unto yourself. Never change, because there is someone out there who will love you for who you are.
BUT... never confuse natural transformation with forced change. Who you are now is a little different to who you will be. That is the gods way of making us better off in the end.
Everyone has trial and tribulations that affect us, make us stronger, and make us learn more about ourselves and the world. Your body is a wonderland. Don't let someone shut it down because they hate the ferris wheel. Stay open, for everyone who loves it. But keep your dignity in your hand. No one can make you feel inferior without your permission. If you own your traits and behavior, trust me, no one will hurt you.
Own what you've got...
Don't be jealous of what you could have...
But work to make things better, if you feel they need to be.
Couldn't have put it better myself!
Bring on 2010 bitchezzzz :)